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Simple Living Isn't Easy

7/10/2017

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​Life in the 21st century is anything but simple.  Do I really need to tell you that?  Our world feeds us countless messages defining what we need in order to be happy, successful, and fulfilled.  Messages like: Live the dream! You can be anything you want to be! Buy [this product] to be more [attractive/productive/happy]. We’ve all heard these messages, either directly or indirectly, and we’ve all bought into at least some of the hopeful promises that our lives can improve…if only we [fill in the blank].  I’ll resist the urge to enumerate the unsatisfying results when we get caught up in wanting to do it all and have it all.
 
But the true result of our modern life, trying to keep up with our packed schedules, overflowing To-Do lists, and material abundance is sadly, not satisfaction and peace. Rather, we have stress, anxiety, broken relationships, and a LOT of stuff.
 
So, in the complexity of our technological age, what does it mean to simplify? What does a simpler life look like for an ordinary family keeping up with work, school, and countless demands? Regardless of the season of life—a young couple, family with children, or empty nesters—how  can any of us find a greater level of simplicity in our noisy, chaotic, energetic world?
 
The beautiful truth is that the concept of “living simply” looks different for each person and every family.  What I deem a simpler, less complicated life for my family will undoubtedly look different from your ideal.  The challenge is that it takes effort to figure out how to step out of a cluttered and demanding lifestyle to pursue a more balanced and satisfying experience of daily life.
 
I want to highlight the two qualities that define a simpler life, according to Deborah DeFord in her book, The Simpler Life (The Readers Digest Association, Inc, 1998).  These are integrity and intentionality.
 
Integrity is defined as a state of being whole and undivided.  This ideal means I need to look at what is important to me, and then live according to those goals and values. If I believe physical fitness is important but never make time in my week to get up and move, then I am not living an integrated life.  Rather, to live according to what I value, I will commit to walking 3 times each week and schedule it on my calendar.  It’s as simple as that:  Live in accordance with what is important to you.
 
Intentionality means we act with purpose.  We consciously decide the choices we make throughout our day.  Thus, to be intentional requires a certain mindfulness.  If we are always “going with the flow,” we may feel spontaneous, but we are not in control of our day.  We are reacting rather than being proactive.  I must admit that I sometimes fell prey to impulse purchases, buying things because they were on sale, even though they were not items on my list.  The result was I spent money I hadn’t planned to spend, brought home things I might not actually use, and then had to find a place to store my latest bargains.  Learning to live with intention means pausing to evaluate my true needs. 
 
How will pursuing integrity and intentionality help you lead a simpler life?
 
Only you can decide what is most important to you. Only you can be in control of: the way you spend your time, the things you buy, and the relationships you pursue.  When you proactively make decisions on what you need in your life and shut out the noise of what others are proclaiming, you will have the ability to pursue only those people, activities and things that give meaning to your life.  Saying “no” to the unnecessary is saying “yes” to what is most valuable—which leads to true satisfaction, contentment, and peace.

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    The core of who I am comes from my faith in God and my relationships with my husband Sandy and our four amazing children.  That's where I want to spend my time!  Having a well ordered home enables me to focus less time on things and more time on what makes life worth living.  Join me as we journey together to make our homes a haven.   

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